----- Original Message -----
Sent: Saturday, August 03, 2002 2:01
PM
Subject: Re: [EverQuest] RE: Givin' up on
love and everything
> I agree with Barto Su, Don't give up. It will happen
someday. Here let
> me tell you my story and see if you feel any better
ok?
>
Huh? You can't give up something you never tried. lol. I'm not
feeling bad
or anything. I just don't give a rats ass. lol.
I don't want
to date anyone or anything like that. Just not interested. It
would
probably cut into my EQ gaming time too much.
I'm happy being
single.
>
> Back in 1988 I met this girl going to the local Jr.
college in the town
> I was living in. I was a senior in high school and
we really hit it off.
> I'll call her "K", K and I were always together
and I soon fell madly in
> love with her. Soon the school year came to a
close, things were
> changing a little for us, I actually cut my waist
long hair so her
> parents wouldn't freak! Yea, I really liked
her!
> Well after she moved back to Denver I got a phone call from her.
She
> wanted to break up and see other people. Of course I was
devastated,
> (I'm one of those sappy sensitive types), and it was hard.
I agreed
> because I really didn't have the experience in relationships
to try and
> work something out. Well two weeks pass and my graduation
came. K shows
> up to go to my graduation, which was cool and all but
the night before
> we get into this nasty fight. We're cruising along
and there is a truck
> full of some of my female friends fom school and
they are drunk off
> their ass! They're whopin' and hollarin' having a
good ol' time. Well K
> suddenly jumps out of the passenger seat and
practically into my lap.
> "Don't look at them." She says to me as she
entwines her arm in mine.
> "Excuse me? You broke up with me remember?"
I said back to her, "I can
> look at whomever I want!" granted it
probably wasn't the most mature way
> to put it but either way we ended
up into a fight. So we came home and
> went to bed. (I left a bunch of
non-important stuff out to save time,
> btw nothing happened.)
>
The next morning I woke up before she did. I was lying there looking
at
> her and thinking this will be the last time we see each other. So
I
> stroke her arm ans she wakes up. We start to kiss and one thing
leads to
> another. It was my first time mind you so I was really
nervous about
> that and to top it off, my Mother was asleep in the next
room! So
> afterwards I ask the usual guy question, of "How was I" and
her response
> was "I've had bigger." SMAK! Oh that hurt! I was
destroyed, whether or
> not it was true, (My wife says she's full of
crap!), it really hurt.
> This began a 7 year drought for me. I
completely shut myself off. I
> didn't date, never went out, got into
stamp collecting. ;D Man it was
> rough! So finally to make an
incredibly long story a little shorter I
> finally got back into the
dating scene. I put an ad out on
> coloradosingles.com which was a great
site because I'll never meet
> someone say in Pennsylvania! I don't
suggest going to that site now
> because they are now a "swinger's"
site, unless of course your into
> that. :-)
> So now you know
that love can happen but it just takes time. Hey are you
> going to the
Denver Everquest Meetup? http://everquest.meetup.com/
I'm
> going to meet some fellow CO Eqer's. Who know, you might meet
that
> someone! ;-)
>
Thanks for sharing. :-)
Glad things
worked out for you in the end. :-)
I'm stuck on the farm taking care of my
animals so I can't go to conventions
and stuff.
I'm a low energy person.
I do not have the energy to deal with people all
the time. Nor do I have
the desire to expend energy to work on a
relationship. I'm just extremely
lazy. Too lazy to bother with a
relationship. And I don't feel any need to
find someone. I like things the
way they
are.
luv,
-Su
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